Andréia Silva

It’s you


When you finally lose an emotional attachment to someone, it’s like a veil is lifted, and you start to see them for who they truly are—just ordinary. The spark you once saw in them, the magic you attributed to their presence, fades, and suddenly, they appear as they always were: human, with flaws and imperfections. It’s a profound moment of realization that it wasn’t necessarily them who was extraordinary—it was the love and energy you poured into the connection that made them seem so special.

You see, love has a way of enhancing people. When you’re emotionally invested, you’re not just seeing a person; you’re seeing a reflection of your feelings, hopes, and dreams in them. Your affection magnifies their good qualities, often masking or minimizing the aspects that may not align with you. It’s like you’re shining a light on them, and in that light, they glow. But once that light fades—once your emotional attachment loosens—you start to notice the shadows, the things you might have overlooked before.

This isn’t to say that the person wasn’t valuable or meaningful in your life. It’s just that, without the lens of attachment, you’re finally seeing them clearly, without the heightened emotions that once blurred your perspective. It’s your love, your energy, and your capacity to care that painted them in colors they didn’t necessarily possess on their own.

And that realization? It’s freeing. Because it shifts the power back to you. You understand that it was never about the person being exceptionally special on their own—it was about you and the depth of love you have to offer. You have the power to create beauty and meaning in your relationships by the energy you choose to invest. And if you could do that once, you can do it again—with someone who truly values and reciprocates that energy.

This also opens up a deeper understanding of self-worth. It’s a reminder that the love you give holds immense value. It’s a force that can transform even the most ordinary of connections into something extraordinary. So, if a relationship has ended or if an attachment has faded, don’t dwell on the loss of the person. Reflect on the incredible capacity you have to bring light into people’s lives—and be proud of that.

Now, moving forward, you have the chance to be more mindful of where you direct that energy. You can choose to invest in people who genuinely see and appreciate your specialness, rather than relying on you to elevate theirs. Recognize that you are the one with the power to make any relationship vibrant and meaningful. Your love, your energy, is a gift—and it should be given to those who honor and reflect it back.

So, when someone no longer feels as significant as they once did, take that as a sign that you’re evolving. You’re seeing things with clarity and wisdom. It’s not about their worth; it’s about your growth. Let that clarity guide you to connections where the magic flows both ways, where your light is met with equal brilliance.

In the end, the most special thing was never them. It was always you.

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Eu nasci em Brasília no ano de 1981. Meu signo é touro. Acredito em Deus. Não tenho religião. Adoro o silêncio. Adoro o verde da natureza. Sou apaixonada por orquídeas. Odeio gente mesquinha. Sou intolerante a idiotices. Aprecio a objetividade. Dou muito valor a pequenas coisas. Adoro pessoas que conhecem o conteúdo de cada palavra dita, e que tem um forte entendimento entre o querer e o fazer. Sou fiel em minhas relações amorosas. Amo na mesma intensidade que odeio. A vida para mim é apenas uma passagem… Não deixe que minhas palavras te confundam. Não queira imaginar que os meus pensamentos sejam o reflexo do meu comportamento. Seria egoísta de sua parte me julgar, pois você não pode dimensionar todo o sentimento que está imbricado em minhas palavras, e como estas me ajudam a esquecer os meus problemas, sanar meus conflitos e me transportar para uma outra realidade. Quero apenas que leiam, e sem juízo de valor. Não tenho a intenção de instigar seu lado obscuro, maldoso e perverso. As palavras podem ser interpretadas de várias formas, mas a maldade ou bondade, que elas transmitem, são reflexo de quem as lê. Se você tem um coração repleto de maldade, nas minhas palavras é o que irá encontrar, caso contrário, verá apenas sentimentos bons, expostos em orações coordenadas ou subordinadas aos meus pensamentos. Assim, antes de me julgar, leia primeiro o seu coração e pergunte a ele como está. Se estiver tudo bem, calmo, tranqüilo, sem ódio, rancor, raiva ou sem outros sentimentos vis, desejo-lhe boa leitura. Agora, se carregar dentro de si sentimentos maus, como os já descritos, por favor, leia o que escrevi, mas fique certo que as conclusões que venham a ter são apenas suas, mas não as minhas. Não queira impregnar-me com rótulos. O que você olha é apenas reflexo do que já conhece de si. Você jamais poderia imaginar o inimaginável ou, então, criar o novo para julgar. Todo esse julgamento é fruto do que já vivenciou, teve conhecimento ou mesmo acredita que é capaz de fazê-lo. I was born in Brasília in the year 1981. My zodiac sign is Taurus. I believe in God. I have no religion. I adore silence. I love the green of nature. I am passionate about orchids. I hate selfish people. I am intolerant of foolishness. I appreciate objectivity. I value small things very much. I admire people who understand the content of each word spoken and who have a strong understanding between wanting and doing. I am faithful in my romantic relationships. I love as intensely as I hate. Life for me is just a passage… Don’t let my words confuse you. Don’t imagine that my thoughts reflect my behavior. It would be selfish of you to judge me, because you cannot gauge all the feelings that are intertwined in my words, and how they help me forget my problems, resolve my conflicts, and transport me to another reality. I only want you to read, without judgment. I have no intention of instigating your dark, malicious, or perverse side. Words can be interpreted in various ways, but the malice or kindness they convey reflects the reader. If you have a heart filled with malice, in my words, that’s what you’ll find, otherwise, you’ll see only good feelings, expressed in coordinated or subordinated clauses to my thoughts. So, before judging me, first read your heart and ask how it is. If everything is fine, calm, peaceful, without hate, resentment, anger, or other vile feelings, I wish you good reading. Now, if you carry within you bad feelings, like those already described, please read what I wrote, but rest assured that the conclusions you may reach are yours alone, not mine. Don’t try to label me. What you see is only a reflection of what you already know about yourself. You could never imagine the unimaginable or create the new for judgment. All this judgment is the result of what you have experienced, known, or even believe you are capable of doing.
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