Andréia Silva

What they are not


There will come a time when you will realize that some people are not good for you and you cannot give your time and energy to them, as your soul will become sick and empty. These people do not feed your spirit and lift your soul; they leave pain wherever they pass through; they give with one hand and take away with the other; they don’t work on their self growth; they lack moral values; on their mind they can’t never be wrong or do some mistakes; they won’t own up to their bad behaviour; they will hurt you and tell you that you should be responsible for your own pain; they can’t take accountability and responsibility for their actions; when they do mistakes, you will be included as: “we did”; when you do mistakes – it’s “you”; they are not fair people; they are emotionally unavailable; they are purposeless and act impulsively in everything they do – they are really shallow beings; they are confusing and emotionally unstable; they are always on the defensive mode; they respond to criticism with a very defensive behaviour as they are “too sensitive” – but this statement only works for themselves; they are always on guard, ready for attack and waiting at the front lines to enter a defensive attitude/response and threatening the relationship; they are incapable to apologize genuinely; they are a soul sucking; they are not genuine; they are a fraud and all that you loved is the idea about them – it’s so sad, right? They live for themselves and for their pleasure; they don’t support your spiritual journey; they play with faith and uses religious to hide themselves; they don’t profess the faith they teach and use the grace and mercy of God in a clandestine way, and forget that: God forgives our sins and not forgive us into the sin, so we can keep repeating the same sin and abusing God’s grace and mercy; They make a debauchery of God’s grace without showing grace through their actions. They are able to justified every action in a way that only supports themselves; they will always have a sad story to tell where they were the victim so that way they can have your sympathy and support; they don’t celebrate your achievements; it’s all about competition and how great they are – a SELF CENTRED PERSON; they praise themselves for things that can’t support a solid mature character. In fact, I personally give a lot value for what is enriched with honesty… They are dishonest being; they are unable to be reasonable; they always think about the impression they will leave, what send them to a tension mode and they will project it on you without mercy; they don’t feel your pain or careless for it… it can go on and on – a endless list. But one thing: they are very seductive in their vocabulary; they will future faking dreams, personality, personal history, education, status, age, maturity, sympathy…We don’t need their sympathy or fooling ourselves into thinking that crumbs represent affection… It’s so simple – They lack empathy and are unable to put themselves in the other person’s shoes; they live own/for excitement and you are unable to heed/meet the level of their scrutiny. Simply, you will never be enough. No matter how hard you try you will still won’t be good enough for this wrong person. You can’t fill the BIG VOID they have! You can’t – definitely you can’t. But don’t worry, because in your worst state, you’ll still be worth everything to the right person.

Don’t you ever forget that you have always been more than good enough. You just have been giving the best of you to the wrong person.

You will find someone special who will be proud to have you in his life, he will be scared of the idea to lose you, he will protect you, he will fights for you, he will appreciates you, he will celebrates you, he will respects you, he will take care of you and those who are important to you, he will adore you and loves you unconditionally, just the way you are and you can be yourself always – it will be absolutely enough!

Andréia Cardoso

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Eu nasci em Brasília no ano de 1981. Meu signo é touro. Acredito em Deus. Não tenho religião. Adoro o silêncio. Adoro o verde da natureza. Sou apaixonada por orquídeas. Odeio gente mesquinha. Sou intolerante a idiotices. Aprecio a objetividade. Dou muito valor a pequenas coisas. Adoro pessoas que conhecem o conteúdo de cada palavra dita, e que tem um forte entendimento entre o querer e o fazer. Sou fiel em minhas relações amorosas. Amo na mesma intensidade que odeio. A vida para mim é apenas uma passagem… Não deixe que minhas palavras te confundam. Não queira imaginar que os meus pensamentos sejam o reflexo do meu comportamento. Seria egoísta de sua parte me julgar, pois você não pode dimensionar todo o sentimento que está imbricado em minhas palavras, e como estas me ajudam a esquecer os meus problemas, sanar meus conflitos e me transportar para uma outra realidade. Quero apenas que leiam, e sem juízo de valor. Não tenho a intenção de instigar seu lado obscuro, maldoso e perverso. As palavras podem ser interpretadas de várias formas, mas a maldade ou bondade, que elas transmitem, são reflexo de quem as lê. Se você tem um coração repleto de maldade, nas minhas palavras é o que irá encontrar, caso contrário, verá apenas sentimentos bons, expostos em orações coordenadas ou subordinadas aos meus pensamentos. Assim, antes de me julgar, leia primeiro o seu coração e pergunte a ele como está. Se estiver tudo bem, calmo, tranqüilo, sem ódio, rancor, raiva ou sem outros sentimentos vis, desejo-lhe boa leitura. Agora, se carregar dentro de si sentimentos maus, como os já descritos, por favor, leia o que escrevi, mas fique certo que as conclusões que venham a ter são apenas suas, mas não as minhas. Não queira impregnar-me com rótulos. O que você olha é apenas reflexo do que já conhece de si. Você jamais poderia imaginar o inimaginável ou, então, criar o novo para julgar. Todo esse julgamento é fruto do que já vivenciou, teve conhecimento ou mesmo acredita que é capaz de fazê-lo. I was born in Brasília in the year 1981. My zodiac sign is Taurus. I believe in God. I have no religion. I adore silence. I love the green of nature. I am passionate about orchids. I hate selfish people. I am intolerant of foolishness. I appreciate objectivity. I value small things very much. I admire people who understand the content of each word spoken and who have a strong understanding between wanting and doing. I am faithful in my romantic relationships. I love as intensely as I hate. Life for me is just a passage… Don’t let my words confuse you. Don’t imagine that my thoughts reflect my behavior. It would be selfish of you to judge me, because you cannot gauge all the feelings that are intertwined in my words, and how they help me forget my problems, resolve my conflicts, and transport me to another reality. I only want you to read, without judgment. I have no intention of instigating your dark, malicious, or perverse side. Words can be interpreted in various ways, but the malice or kindness they convey reflects the reader. If you have a heart filled with malice, in my words, that’s what you’ll find, otherwise, you’ll see only good feelings, expressed in coordinated or subordinated clauses to my thoughts. So, before judging me, first read your heart and ask how it is. If everything is fine, calm, peaceful, without hate, resentment, anger, or other vile feelings, I wish you good reading. Now, if you carry within you bad feelings, like those already described, please read what I wrote, but rest assured that the conclusions you may reach are yours alone, not mine. Don’t try to label me. What you see is only a reflection of what you already know about yourself. You could never imagine the unimaginable or create the new for judgment. All this judgment is the result of what you have experienced, known, or even believe you are capable of doing.
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